Keeping up with my blogger friends...

January is the most busiest month of the year.. Its quite busy as expected but unexpected health  twist is taking a toll on my schedule. I have been traveling quite a lot in this year. And I have another two trips scheduled for the next 2 weeks to come. Added to the misery cold waves are making my health unpredictable.Due to my busy schedule and my sickness I was not able to read most of the blogs written by blogger friends on time.. So one fine day when I had time I sat and I was reading post after post, visiting blog after blog and commenting on them .. For a second it looked as if I am back in college preparing for my examination and comments area is my examination paper.

My brother who saw me doing that asked me why was I reading post after post as if someone would punish me if I don't do so. He is dummy and  somehow I don't consider his opinion about my blogging . He was the reason I changed my blog from Lingering Thoughts to Rambling Of A Single Girl. That's an embarrassing story may be I will share it someday .. Now after changing it he still has an issue with the title of the blog. So I don't really mind his comments .. Anyway back to my blogger friends..  So I started to feel the stress to keep up with them.. Previously I used to mindlessly follow many blogs ..  But this time specially I am following very few bloggers , A year and half of blogging made me wise and I am matured now :P I choose very insightful writers and mostly I could relate to their writing. Not only that most of the time they inspire me to write better. So I don't want to miss reading them. Some write a post or two in a week , some write a daily post. I don't want to be the last one to comment..

I don't have many followers Thank God for that (Not that I don't like followers ;) please take the hint :p ) Because I feel that I have a moral responsibility ( I know that's a big word to use) to visit their blogs and comment on them . Not only them there are few regular bloggers (loyal) who are not my followers but still they take their time out and read my post and comment without fail which actually encourages me to write more and better. And I  value  them. So  I want to show my loyalty but I don't like commenting without reading the post. I feel that's rude and cheat . Don't you think so?? I personally don't like people doing that. I tried keeping a track of their blogs by adding them to the blog roll , But I still miss out sometimes .What really  surprises how people who have 50 to few hundred followers keep up with their blogger friends..  Is there a way or a technique? What's the secret? How do you keep up with your blogger friends ????

PLEASE HELP !!!